a lot of times, people think that God is telling them not to do something, or pointing towards something, for no reason. Simply for kicks, or something. Sure, it's hard stuff, it isn't always exactly what we wanted, but come on guys, it's God.

sooner or later, it just all has to come down to: will you buy that when God shows you what to do, it's because he cares deeply for you and knows what's good for you, or not?